Epilogue- Cool beans dudes. You guys can stop replying now lol. She said i dont really hate you i love you.

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I'm pretty sure shes joking and i dont really care if she doesnt pick up that i am joking. First time i replied "Me too. Im starting to hate myself too." Second time i replied "But i love you" What would you guys say?


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Avoid anything self-deprecating.

Specially, on texts where the vibe is kind of invisible or at least partially veiled.

Your first reply, is self deprecating.

Me too. Im starting to hate myself too.

Your second reply, is supplicating.

But i love you

If that was your intention to convey, you did.

If it wasn't, go with

You are such an asshole. . (Ballsy)

Where are your manners derpina ;) (Teasing)

...said a kinky girl to the love of her life. (Deflective / Amused Mastery)

tl;dr

Go with the way you carry yourself, anything will be effective as long as it is coherent with the way you carry yourself. But don't be self deprecating / supplicating / pedestalising.


"I know" and maybe the ;) also, like Scumbag said, some things are hard to see as sarcastic.

"I love it when you're mad."


Why did she say she hates you? If she's joking I would probably just write back "haha :-D" or whatever. Girls jokingly telling me "I hate you" sounds like the payoff for some dumb, teasing joke I've been making.

If I'm not sure if she's joking, and I don't know why she would hate me, I'll just say: "Why?" (Because I don't know why) And if she's joking, follow up with: "Haha, I don't get it" (because I obviously don't). Or maybe I'll get it when she explains it, and I'll be like: "Oooooh, yadda yadda" playing along.

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It doesn't have to be complicated. Direct communication is the most wonderful tool you'll ever discover. If she genuinely hates you, she's not going to appreciate some cocky text. Because she hates you. Asking "Why" is powerful. There's no reason to submit to her bullshit. If she hates you and you don't know what you've done, that's just weak with no connection between you. If she hates you for a stupid reason, why would you keep talking to her?

And finally - if she's joking and you don't get it, then it was a nonsensical joke to you. You don't have to find her funny if she's not funny. She'll feel bad for making you feel bad when it wasn't on purpose. And you'll feel bad for making her feel bad for making you feel bad and then you'll laugh about that instead.